Ways to Support Children During Change
Major school transitions can be intimidating for parents and kids alike. Whether your child is preparing for middle school, high school, or a completely new school system, these transitions come along with unique learning curves and challenges. In the midst of change, parents need to know how to support their children best and prepare them for success. Read on for more information and advice about how to make the most of this transitional milestone with your child.
Things to expect during each school transition:
Elementary School – Students begin learning new routines as they adjust to school structure for the first time. Students begin to form foundational social, emotional, and problem-solving skills.
Middle School – Students go from having one teacher to having multiple teachers, and there’s often an additional increase in class size. Workload increases, puberty occurs, and social connections may grow or change.
High School – Students experience an increase in academic responsibility as college preparation begins. Students may also experience difficulty with social connections as educational and personal pressures increase.
College – Students begin to develop a true sense of independence away from home. Academic and personal responsibilities increase significantly, and students begin to form new social connections.
Try M.A.P.S.
If you’re not sure where to start when it comes to supporting your student, just remember to follow the MAPS:
M – Make a plan.
A little extra structure goes a long way! While transitions may cause stress or a sense of lost control, strong routines and healthy habits can create a sense of calm and control for your child.
A – Acknowledge questions and concerns.
Nerves are normal. Talk to your child about any questions or concerns they might have, and offer a listening ear if they bring worries your way.
P – Provide encouragement.
Encouragement is essential. While it’s important to celebrate big and small wins alike, make sure your child knows they are valued apart from their accomplishments all the same.
S – Stay calm.
To create a deeper sense of safety for your child, practice remaining calm as any stressors arise during the transition. Lead by example and model healthy coping skills for your child to mirror.
